He Slept With Her But Says He Wants Me
How do I know if a boy really likes me? He told me he did at a house party then slept with someone else.
Now he’s saying it was a mistake and will never happen again.
Rosie, 17 years old
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Run, run, run away from this boy and don’t look back. If he was serious about you, he would not have slept with someone else. That’s not how it works.
Yes, I understand you weren’t going out at the time but I think you need to ask yourself, what kind of guy do you want to be with? This is the time when you choose.
Do you want to be with someone who says he likes you and makes it clear he is not interested in anyone else? Or do you want to waste your time with someone who says he likes you until he gets a better offer, then comes back to you?
Rosie, you deserve better than this.
Don’t wait for him to choose you when it’s convenient for him and don’t accept second best. If a guy really likes you, he will show you consistently and won’t leave you in any doubt about how he feels.
Lots of love,
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