Does She Still Want to be my Girlfriend?
My girlfriend doesn’t show me any affection. She used to cuddle and kiss me all the time but I really don’t think she wants to anymore.
My biggest fear is that she’s falling out of love with me and I don’t know how to handle it. I’ve tried to talk to her but she gets weird and doesn’t want to talk about it. I feel so ugly and unlovable.
Katie, 17 years old
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You can tell something is different in your relationship but it sounds like your girlfriend isn’t ready to talk about it. Are there other things going on in her life that may be affecting her? Is she stressed or anxious about something? There could be many reasons why her behaviour has changed.
It is always best to have open and honest conversations in our relationships. Sometimes we are too afraid to do this because we are scared of what we might find out. But, if you don’t talk you will never resolve the situation.
Find a quiet time to talk things over with your girlfriend. Tell her how you feel and what you are worried about. Then let her tell you how she feels.
If the worst happens and she doesn’t want to be with you anymore, please remember this does not mean you are ugly or unlovable. It just means she is not the right person for you.
The right person will always see the beauty that lies within you.
Lots of love,
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